If a woman is taking a condom in her bag does that make her a ‘slut’ or ‘easy’? If a man takes a condom does that make him a ‘stud’? Our negative and immature attitudes to sex and taking condoms does demonstrate how little our attitudes have changed.
It’s the height of irresponsibility to have any sexual chatted with another people without protection if you’re not in a stable, loving relationship with them. This is not just about preventing pregnancy; it is about preventing the spread of STIs and other unpleasant infections. This problem is rarely talked about in so-called ‘polite society’.
A woman or man carrying a condom is responsible – they are not wrong. It does not mean that because a person is carrying a condom that are going to have sex, or that they are easy, or that they are a sex maniac.
The repression of female sexuality has a long history. That repression is still with us in the 21stcentury. A female carrying a condom signifies to us that she is taking some control and responsibility for her body. Too many have allowed innocent women to suffer because of misplaced and discriminatory attitudes.
A female taking a condom is a morally responsible act. We should be looking to and copying the Scandinavian countries to understand best practice. Yes, there is more sexual imagery around and sexually explicit material available – but our core attitudes and beliefs about male and female sexual behaviour has hardly changed at all.
And parents still find it difficult to discuss these issues with their children. That we still are embarrassed to talk about these problems when every single one of us is a sexual being is, at best, disappointing and must change as a matter of urgency. That is why we are very encouraged to see many more female doctors in senior positions in the hospitals and health centres.
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